I have been reminded several times recently to accept and appreciate what is unfolding in my life. Now that doesn’t mean that life is exactly what I would wish. It doesn’t mean I stop working toward goals. It is about realizing where I am and what is happening in my life is exactly what is meant to be. It is about gratitude for the Now I’m experiencing – the warmth of my shelter, the sweetness of the food I’m eating, the joy of hearing the laughter of friends.
The partner to this attitude of acceptance is letting go of resistance. It’s about being quiet and centered enough to pay attention to the guidance of the universe. Sometimes we have a vision of what we want to have happen, and we hold on with a stubborn ferocity to that picture. If we find ourselves continually running up against blocks, if things aren’t moving forward, we need to take a moment. Instead of beating our heads against the wall, we must stop, breathe, accept, and open up.
Examine the following:
What kind of attitudes and thoughts are you holding?
It is important to frame your intentions in positive manner. You cannot reap abundance by planting seeds of lack. For example I’m working on weight loss. It’s easy to see holding thoughts of, “Every day I’m leaner, healthier, and stronger.” will allow for more success than thoughts of “This is so hard. I am so sick of not being able to eat my favorite foods. Why won’t the number on the scale go down?” Both methods of thinking will be answered. So choose thoughts that support what you actually want to manifest. Coming from a place a lack will only produce more lack.
Has the Universe answered and you just haven’t seen it?
Our prayers aren’t always answered in the manner we expect. So instead of being focused on a particular outcome, just be open to the energy coming into your life in the manner that will serve your highest good. Sometimes the universe will answer a prayer with something that will takes us out of our comfort zone and challenge us, but it is exactly what we “asked” for. Practice openness. Say yes. Don’t block your blessings.
Are you resisting guidance that would lead you to another choice/another path?
We are eternally supported by a divine force. We may not realize in the moment why one door was shut on us. It may hurt. It may be frustrating. And that’s okay to feel those feelings. But then take a breath and look at things through the eyes of possibility.
Maybe that job didn’t happen, because you’re meant to take another one that will be coming soon. Maybe a creative effort is becoming blocked because there is a new direction to take with it that allows the fullness of your inner wisdom and light to be expressed. Look for the good. Surrender and say to God/Spirt/The Universe, “I trust in your guidance. I surrender my actions, my thoughts to you for my highest good and the highest good of others.”
Don’t resist. Flow. Be present. Be open. And above all trust – in your inner power, in the love of your angels and God, and that all that happens is for your highest good.
We are all capable of much more than we realize….but the Universe knows what gifts rest inside of us waiting to be shared. We are powerful. We are worthy. But we need to get out of own way and not resist what is available to us.
I wish you the best in all of your efforts. I appreciate the light you add to the world. Can’t wait to see what you do next!
Namaste
The thoughts you share with us are, as always, uplifting and encouraging. Sometimes we need others to show us that we could be doing this (life, living) in a more productive and peaceful manner. Thank you for posting this Mel, I don’t know anyone who couldn’t benefit from your words…
Ah, Resa. Thank you so much for those kind words and for reading my writing. I can’t tell you how encouraging and inspiring you are to me. I am so grateful for you!
Mel… Your writings, as always, are captivating, and as Resa said, uplifting. And I agree with you wholeheartedly… there is a country song about thanking God for unanswered prayers that this post reminded me of. And it has definitely been true in my life and Jim’s. We’ve both had dreams dashed on the rocks, but in the end, another door/path opened before us that was so much better.
So, acceptance of your journey is definitely important. And overcoming resistance and staying open to what may come is always the challenge… But one worth the effort!
Kathi
Thank you for reading and commenting, Kathi. I definitely agree with your insights! I appreciate kind words as well.